Tag: 30 days intimacy

Father’s Day From The Dark Side: He’s Got Rope

So… a Father’s Day blog about Alpha Hubby. I say “dark side” because we aren’t that couple who still have kids at home. We’re on the other side. No more pacifiers and much more stockings, garters and rope (smile). Alpha Son has been out of the house a few years now. We see him often..

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Do You Really See Him? Part 1

So the other day Alpha Hubby came in for lunch. We had lunch then, we suddenly decided to dash to the bedroom for some Afternoon Delight. We hadn’t done that in awhile. We giggled, smiled at one another, laughed, looked at one another like we had a secret, and felt like newlyweds the rest of the day…

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Mo’ Intimacy (#2)

So we left off in our last post with a promise of sharing some ideas to help you create, recreate or increase the intimacy in your relationship. A lot of it is just little things but those little things are more important than you may realize. I did say in the last post – I..

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Let’s Get It On

I entitled this post “Let’s Get It On” because the first song playing was Marvin Gaye’s version; apparently Hypster has removed all his versions of the song so it’s gone. Now it starts with Norah Jone’s “Turn Me On”, for inquiring minds. I read an article about “love after **” (** being a certain age). I..

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Love Says They Will

If you want to hear this love song below, you’ll need to go to the right and pause the music player. Just click on the || button! ************* The world says they’ll never make it… LOVE says they will. This is an older video someone posted on You Tube.  Look past the fuzzies and watch..

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I Really Just Love Him

(A few years ago after Pamela over at Road to Joy (who is now a published author, thankyouverymuch) and I issued a challenge to blogland to say something positive about your significant other for 30 days, we decided several months later to up the intimacy in blogger’s lives.  Our challenge was to do something to create..

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Love Doesn’t Hurt

In mid-70’s a group called Nazereth had a hit song:  Love Hurts: Love hurts – love scars Love wounds and mars Any heart not tough Or strong enough To take a lot of pain Take a lot of pain Love is like the clouds Holds a lot of rain Love hurts These lovely depressing lyrics were..

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Men and Intimacy

(A slight redux of an older Intimacy post.  The 30-Days Intimacy challenge posts are below). I’ve done a lot of research over the years, been on hundreds of men’s sites, checking answers to interesting questions, and best of all, picked the brain of Alpha Hubby – and realized that most men like romantic gestures.  Women may..

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30 Days: Is It Over? And a Giveaway!

It is hard to believe it has been THIRTY DAYS since Pamela over at pamelahutchins.com and I challenged one another – or as she so politely said it, “entered into a faux war — which of us had the most amazing, intimate relationship with their fabulous husband?”  I scoffed at her belief that she could..

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Day 23 When Intimacy is Taken Too Far

I think there comes a time in a relationship where intimacy is taken too far.  I think that while couples should be encouraged to share everything and have no secrets between them, there is still THAT.  THAT which should not be shared in the bedroom, much less anywhere else in the house, or outside. Oh..

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