I remember when I was younger and a friend and I saw an “older” couple walking down the street holding hands, I thought “Aww, how sweet” and she was grossed out. She didn’t believe it was appropriate for old people (they were probably in their 50’s) to act like that. She thought they should keep those public displays of affection to themselves, at home.
So many times youth judge older people harshly, thinking they themselves will be young forever. Sometimes when one is older, that is the one thing we like about getting a bit older – you know it will happen to everyone, even snot nosed young people!
I’m talking getting older through numbers, not aging. Aging is actually a choice or default, not a set-in-stone fact. It is a choice as in you choose to accept aging or feeling less than 100 percent; to accept aches and pains as normal and to give up or begin to think it’s “too much work!”.
Or it is default as in if you don’t make a decision, one will be made for you. If you don’t take care of yourself your body and mind default to aches, pains, wrinkled skin, thinning hair, weight gain, that it is normal or genes (tell that to Oleda Baker a beautiful 79 year old former model).
As I began researching longevity, I studied things I could do to stay healthy and active, keeping my joints fluid, maintaining my skin, etc. What I learned astonished me. We have been sold a bill of goods that says “You much have these symptoms as you get age; it is a fact of life.” LIE!
In case you doubt me, look at these pictures below (click to enlarge) – pay very careful attention (there is a reason):
Sister Madonna Buder 82
Joyce Carpati 82
Ready for what they all have in common?
1-2 = Random pictures of women, aged 80+
3-4 = Daphne Selfe, age 83 – called “World’s Oldest Supermodel”
5-6 = Christopher Plummer, age 82, oldest Actor to win Academy Award
7-8 = Carmen Dell’Orefice, age 83, current model (she is the only one who has had “a little work done”)
9-10 = The Iron Nun Sister Madonna Buder, age 82 The 82-year-old `Iron Nun` who has completed over 340 triathlons – almost one every month for 30 years AND didn’t start until she was 48.
11 = Joyce and Arthur George, ages 89 and 90, still teaching amateur roller skaters
12 = Jacquie “Tajah” Murdock, age 82, Apollo Dance Theater Legend and now new Lanvin model
15 – Earl Cameron, 96, One of first Black actors in UK television and film, and still active.
The last time I did something like this for you, most of the people were in their 50’s and 60’s. So did you notice what all these beauties had in common? THEY ARE ALL 80+ YEARS OR OLDER
The first picture is close to what most people think eighty (80) should look like. The second is far more fun to think about and work to achieve. The rest? Oh my gosh they are amazing people, full of life, still agile, still functioning in society, still beautiful or handsome, still working, and still taking care of themselves. And none of them badmouth themselves. They talk energy. They talk life. They talk doing, being and thinking strong.
So you ask what this post is about? If you are in your 20’s, 30′, 40’s START NOW. It will be so much easier on you in your latter years. You can live a long and productive – and beautiful – life if you plan for it. It isn’t random. Every one of the real people above took care of themselves in one way or another.
And if you are over 40, it’s not too late to start taking excellent care of yourself instead of falling for the default. You know the one – where you joke about being or getting old, where you moan and groan and accept that you are supposed to feel old. Where your mouth will undermine anything you try to do toward longevity.
As Carmen Dell’Orefice said, “…nothing on the outside is going to make a blind bit of difference unless you take care of the inside.”
But if you don’t also take care of the outside, then you will look like those apple dolls above – and we KNOW none of us really wants to look like that.
Research longevity. If you’re even going to live what some think is normal – 80+ years – how do you want to live it? Do you want to be in a wheelchair with your knees hurting and your mind wandering or gone? Most of us will reach 80 (and beyond) but how you reach it and what shape you’re in is totally your choice.
Pay attention to what you’re saying. Moisturize that face and decollete. Laugh a lot. Enjoy life. Dance in water puddles. Begin to focus on longevity and make plans. You have 9 roll models (and believe me, there are more) that prove you can live a long, strong, vital, and healthy life – and be beautiful while doing it!
What’s in a face? Well that, my darlinks, is totally up to you.